So sorry x
Very sad news.....
September 07, 2008
As you all know from my previous update I was 6 weeks pregnant.
I went to the hospital for an ultrasound on 9/2/08 where they had determined that I was about 12 weeks and 5 days pregnant. Much to my dismay, I also found out that there was no fetal heartbeat and the fetus was not growing. Unfortunately, I already knew what this meant for me.
I miscarried on 9/5/08. :( My husband and I are completely devastated.
No one seems to know why I miscarried again but my doctor has offered to do some tests to try to figure it out.
For the time being my husband and I have decided to take a year off because I am emotionally and physically drained. Maybe we will have better luck next time.
I went to the hospital for an ultrasound on 9/2/08 where they had determined that I was about 12 weeks and 5 days pregnant. Much to my dismay, I also found out that there was no fetal heartbeat and the fetus was not growing. Unfortunately, I already knew what this meant for me.
I miscarried on 9/5/08. :( My husband and I are completely devastated.
No one seems to know why I miscarried again but my doctor has offered to do some tests to try to figure it out.
For the time being my husband and I have decided to take a year off because I am emotionally and physically drained. Maybe we will have better luck next time.
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i had the saem thing happen to me about 11 weeks ago so i know how you feel, it is still very raw for me and DH. I went in for u/s at 8 weeks and same thing as you. My body didnt m/c on its own so i had to have a forced m/c and that was so hard to do. I didnt go in for it for a few weeks.
you are in my thoughts and i cant say how sorry i am for you and DH.
:(
you are in my thoughts and i cant say how sorry i am for you and DH.
:(
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. It is so hard to explain how I feel sometimes. It feels just like losing a family member -- but we just did not get a chance to meet him or her. In time things will be better...right?? Well that is what I hear anyway. Thanks again you guys are the best. I just wish that I knew what went wrong......
It will get better and it will get easier, you will never forget but it will get easier! Im soo sorry once again sweetie and just take as much time as you need, you are a great person and good things only come to good people, even though right now it may not seem that way, just think God was saving you lots of heartache down the road. Thats the only way to look at this situation.
Lots of love!
Lots of love!
It will seem like it goes by slower right now, its still very fresh and very new. For me the only way I got through it, although mine was only @ 5weeks, was to start right back again. In situations like that for me thats the only way I can do it. I lost a puppy that I raised from birth @ 7weeks old, and she was born without a diaphram (didnt know that till we went to get her fixed and to get her hernia fixed, then when they opened her up well they were shocked and didnt even know what to do, everything was in the wrong place and there was nothing separating the organs apart). Anyways the only thing I could do was of course we had to put her down, which killed me, she was soo small, then that very weekend I couldnt take it and we got a new puppy. Its just my way of dealing wtih things, because it is so hard in situations like that.
I think everyone has there way of dealing with things, and I think with keeping yourself occupied with something or going out of town for vacation for a week could help. Nothing will ever let you forget about it, but it does get easier!
Lots of love sweetie!
I think everyone has there way of dealing with things, and I think with keeping yourself occupied with something or going out of town for vacation for a week could help. Nothing will ever let you forget about it, but it does get easier!
Lots of love sweetie!
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September 07, 2008