You have a beautiful family! Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to seeing the newest person :)
MrsMiller(akaShelly)
Chillicothe, Ohio
Member for 4 months
My Family!
December 01, 2008
Here are some pictures of all 3 of my natural children, I have 4 step children too. I do not think its appropraite to post their pics w/o permission! So there wont be any of them...they would think Im nuts! lol
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SHelly! You're always such a good source of info for me and always there to help me, I have some worries and some questions so if you get time can you give me your opinion on them and help me figure out what to do and get some peace of mind? Thanks love =)
got only 2 beta's done thats all they scheduled me for at my OBGYN, they went from 130 to 263, and so they doubled... but they never told me to come back in and do more. Should I? I hear some women talk about getting beta's done like 20 dpo and their in the 1,000's. SHould I worry about doing another beta to make sure the #'s keep doubling, or is just 2 beta's by 14dpo good enough?
Also I am curious, in your opinion, if a woman supposedly had a septum in her uterus or a funny shaped dipped uterus and fell pregnant, would you want to do a u/s right around 6 weeks or sooner or later, or does it even matter? I just want my u/s soon so I can see that the baby attatched right and is growing strong... you can understand why I have slight worries right? Well the CNP I saw wasnt too worried about it all even though I'm only 4 weeks 4 days pregnant. She said she wanted me to get one scheduled in 2 weeks which would be right around 6 weeks, so I was SO happy to hear that. HOWEVER when I went to schedule my appt. they were "all booked up" until Dec. 31st. So now my u/s is 4 weeks away not 2, like me and my CNP wanted. Is this a bad thing? Should I call and talk to a nurse about my worries and see if they can schedule me in sooner somehow?
I say "possible" septum cuz they never got to do the SIS to get a good look at it and see if its a septum inside or just a dip in the actual uterus itself, cuz I got pregnant, so now I'm left with only wondering... is there a septum in there? is everything still gonna be OK with this pregnancy now? yada yada... its so frustrating.
I guess what I'm asking is, in your opinion, is the possible septum that may be in my uterus a problem to worry about? Should I be concerned at all, and should I push for a u/s sooner to make sure everything is OK? Or just wait until I"m 8 weeks along and just go with the flow of things?
got only 2 beta's done thats all they scheduled me for at my OBGYN, they went from 130 to 263, and so they doubled... but they never told me to come back in and do more. Should I? I hear some women talk about getting beta's done like 20 dpo and their in the 1,000's. SHould I worry about doing another beta to make sure the #'s keep doubling, or is just 2 beta's by 14dpo good enough?
Also I am curious, in your opinion, if a woman supposedly had a septum in her uterus or a funny shaped dipped uterus and fell pregnant, would you want to do a u/s right around 6 weeks or sooner or later, or does it even matter? I just want my u/s soon so I can see that the baby attatched right and is growing strong... you can understand why I have slight worries right? Well the CNP I saw wasnt too worried about it all even though I'm only 4 weeks 4 days pregnant. She said she wanted me to get one scheduled in 2 weeks which would be right around 6 weeks, so I was SO happy to hear that. HOWEVER when I went to schedule my appt. they were "all booked up" until Dec. 31st. So now my u/s is 4 weeks away not 2, like me and my CNP wanted. Is this a bad thing? Should I call and talk to a nurse about my worries and see if they can schedule me in sooner somehow?
I say "possible" septum cuz they never got to do the SIS to get a good look at it and see if its a septum inside or just a dip in the actual uterus itself, cuz I got pregnant, so now I'm left with only wondering... is there a septum in there? is everything still gonna be OK with this pregnancy now? yada yada... its so frustrating.
I guess what I'm asking is, in your opinion, is the possible septum that may be in my uterus a problem to worry about? Should I be concerned at all, and should I push for a u/s sooner to make sure everything is OK? Or just wait until I"m 8 weeks along and just go with the flow of things?
I would call back in & ask if they can see you ANY sooner & if not, put you on a list if there is a cancellation. BUT....I would not worry, there is a book called "The Secret", it says 'WHATEVER YOU PUT IN THE UNIVERSE WILL COME BACK TO YOU" like a boomerang effect. So...I try to NEVER focus on the negative. I tell myself everyday that I am blessed by God & I have a healthy baby inside me, gave to me by my Lord. So as I worry about issues, I never focus. Put it out in the universe that you do not have a septum & that your baby is healthy & will be here on your due date! That is why I never posted when I was bleeding & cramping, I refused to put out in the universe, I might be miscarrying! But now, I do want a few extra prayers to help the blood reabsorb. Again, if you read my post, my baby is healthy! So I guess Im telling you to not be concerned with anymore test or the possible septum. God gave you that baby, NOW, not after you were tested for that. So he has a plan. Its amazing how pregnancy can self correct problems with the uterus. It can reverse Endo, I know...bcz I had endo when I was 17 & have NEVER had it again after my children! then my uterus was prolapsed, I got preg w my 3 yr old, there was no evidence of it, not an thickness or scarring! A woman's body is the most amazing thing, it is built to make that lil life in you live. I know alot of women experience MC's, & I dont want to dismiss that,,,but unless there is some reason to worry about your pregnancy being in danger....please don't! Ive had 3 babies & NEVER had a beta test! God gives us our blessings, dont make too much of a sceince of it, you totally take away his glory! Im not some bible thumper, but I have a strong faith! Look at me, my AF was delayed some how so when I went to my 1st RE, it just so happened to be cd3, so we could start testing THAT day! I got my 1st IUI! That just doesnt happen! I had never taken a single med for fertility, not even spoke to my OB about having a child. I just went straight to an RE!
Ok, it looks like Ive rambled! lol But Imm trying to tell ya hunni....dont sweat it! That lil bean is there to stay! If they can get you in earlier, then go for it! But do it so you can see your child again, not bcz your worried about any problems! XOXOXO
Ok, it looks like Ive rambled! lol But Imm trying to tell ya hunni....dont sweat it! That lil bean is there to stay! If they can get you in earlier, then go for it! But do it so you can see your child again, not bcz your worried about any problems! XOXOXO
You're totally right Shelly and I think I was looking for you to tell me that. I know to stay positive and I always always always do. For some reason I dont know if its the devil or what but ever since i've gotten pregnant I have a new fear inside me. Its totally new to me and I have slight trouble shaking it off. I needed to hear those positive words. I know all those things I have read the book THE SECRET. I also recently read a book called Supernatural Conception and that helped me to learn how to stay focused on the good things, to talk to God and to talk to my body. I literally got pregnant 3 weeks after I read it. So I know how to take things and turn them positive and keep the good in my life. I have always been able to do things with God by my side. However ever since I've gotten pregnant I feel different, I have no control over my body, my hormones are out of whack already, I just feel a fear inside me and I dont know what negative forces are causing it but its harder than ever for me to stay positive... but I am trying! I know my lil bean will grow strong and I believe it is meant to be and what you just told me made me feel so much better. Thank you.
Your so welcome. As for your body being out of control, what your feeling is your body trying to balance those hormones! I love this site, but it is really important you dont let others trials & tribulations freak you out! I remember my 1st preg, I always was scared something was wrong, then I saw a movie about a devil baby, I HAD DREAMS MY CHILD WAS OF THE DEVIL! LOL If you think this is bad..wait til your baby is born, you will have to have me on speed dial! You lay there watching that magical gift from god, terrified he may not wake up, or anything you have ever read will happen! SO....relax....rub that lil bean down there, & talk to him or her. Tell her or him to get to growin, cuz you want to see them & love them! Its not to soon. Your gonna be a great mommy & your pregnancy will be awesome, once you see the HB all will be so much better, then when they move! OMG its heaven on earth. Pregnancy is sooo wonderful, its the only time you dont have to share your child with the world! Its the only time u know its safe 24/7~ & it is! So relax...& enjoy! Your a mommy now, you'll be as wise as me!
Your so welcome. As for your body being out of control, what your feeling is your body trying to balance those hormones! I love this site, but it is really important you dont let others trials & tribulations freak you out! I remember my 1st preg, I always was scared something was wrong, then I saw a movie about a devil baby, I HAD DREAMS MY CHILD WAS OF THE DEVIL! LOL If you think this is bad..wait til your baby is born, you will have to have me on speed dial! You lay there watching that magical gift from god, terrified he may not wake up, or anything you have ever read will happen! SO....relax....rub that lil bean down there, & talk to him or her. Tell her or him to get to growin, cuz you want to see them & love them! Its not to soon. Your gonna be a great mommy & your pregnancy will be awesome, once you see the HB all will be so much better, then when they move! OMG its heaven on earth. Pregnancy is sooo wonderful, its the only time you dont have to share your child with the world! Its the only time u know its safe 24/7~ & it is! So relax...& enjoy! Your a mommy now, you'll be as wise as me!
Thanks soooo much =) Thats just waht I needed to hear. YOu are so wonderful. Thank you so so much. I actually talked to my bean today in the shower lol. I told it that it was safe and not to worry and that soon it will grow bigger and then come out and meet mommy and daddy. Its so surreal. I feel different but not actually pregnant, pregnancy is nothing like I expected it to. Its amazing. I can't wait to feel my baby move =)
Thanks for all the advice!
Thanks for all the advice!
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December 01, 2008