Oblivious, heres wishing you tons of baby dust for a healthy lovely baby boy
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Oblivious
Member for about 1 year
ttc#1 pg#2
October 26, 2007
I'm 25 years old. I've been married for a year. I thought I'd never want to be a mom. I felt scared more than anything when I found out I was pregnant back in May. But I got used to the idea that we're going to have a baby. Week after week, utrasound after ultrasound, I started to fall in love with my baby. I went for an ultrasound at 13.4 weeks, I was hoping maybe we could find out the gender of the baby. I will never forget that day: I looked at the monitor and I saw my baby and I saw the doctor looking at it, I think he was thinking of what to say next to me. He didn't have to say anything, I knew that there was no more heart beat :( I had no symptoms whatsoever, not even when I went to have my baby taken out. It was such a life-changing experience. I couldn't wait to ttc again. This is the second month (oct-nov) that we ttc. I came across this website and I got very quickly addicted. There is so much love and support here and I hope I can be part of it!
Oblivious,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, we share a very similar experience with our first pregnancy, our stories are sooo similar... Almost the very same thing happened to me.. I also found out I was pregnant this past May, and also found the baby no longer had a heartbeat. I underwent a D & C in June. My hubby and I are anxious to have a baby now. I was much like you in regards to the fact that before the pregnancy, I did not have a strong desire to have a baby, but then when we found out I was scared out of my mind.. but then I got excited.. really excited... well I wish you the best, and of course lots of ********BABYDUST************
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, we share a very similar experience with our first pregnancy, our stories are sooo similar... Almost the very same thing happened to me.. I also found out I was pregnant this past May, and also found the baby no longer had a heartbeat. I underwent a D & C in June. My hubby and I are anxious to have a baby now. I was much like you in regards to the fact that before the pregnancy, I did not have a strong desire to have a baby, but then when we found out I was scared out of my mind.. but then I got excited.. really excited... well I wish you the best, and of course lots of ********BABYDUST************
Thank you ladies for your kind and encouraging words... they really mean A LOT.
Lisa- I'm so sorry about your loss, I know how heartbreaking it is... I'm glad we have something in common, and hopefully a soon to come healthy pregnancy will be something we all share :)
*****************BABY DUST TO ALL********************
Lisa- I'm so sorry about your loss, I know how heartbreaking it is... I'm glad we have something in common, and hopefully a soon to come healthy pregnancy will be something we all share :)
*****************BABY DUST TO ALL********************
I am very sorry for your loss. I have recently had 2 miscarriages back to back and know how truly devastating it is. I had to go through both miscarriages alone because my husband is out of town on a big contract for our family business. It's hard facing something like this alone. I haven't told my husband about the recent miscarriage because it just happened this past week. Don't get discouraged as I am right now, it hurts, but just think, when the time is right, God will bless you with that perfect little someone to love. Keep your chin up and have faith. It will happen for you.
I m so sorry to hear that .What happened with u at 13.4 weaks happened with me after full nine months pregnancy.The difference is that u were expecting to know the gender of ur baby that day and I was expecting to have my little daughter in my hands.......Hope we get pregnant soon and everything goes well this time.
GOOD LUCK!
GOOD LUCK!
I'm so sorry for what you went through Oblivious , I sort of went through the same exact thing at 18 weeks... except my dr has me going to get some other Ultrasound, even after we both saw there was no heart beat. I know what you are talking about, I had a natural birth, and its definitely always at the front of my lids everytime my eyes close. No one can understand what you are going through and nothing they say can help... though sites like these are so comforting, if anything it has alot of information and it does help to know you're not all alone... Hopefully we will both have BFP soon. GL to you
Thanks Payton, I opted for a D&C as I didn't think I could emotionally wait for a natural miscarriage. You're very brave to have done it. You'll never forget your little one, but it does get easier with time. I joined this site a month after I had the loss, and I found tons of love and support and great information. I'm happy to say I'm now expecting a baby girl in 12 days!!! :)
October 26, 2007
We are all here to support you and help you. So, you can definitely be a part of it! Stay positive, have faith, and know that you are not alone out there.
Take care, and lots of *****BABY DUST******* to you!!!!!!!